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Glynnis MacNicol is here to tell you that life as a year-old single, childless woman - the thing we're taught to fear and avoid at all costs!

MacNicol approached her 40th birthday "with so much dread and shame" because she didn't have what she was "supposed" to have - a husband and a kid lod two. Gear that year was difficult in some ways: She was the carer for her mother, who was struggling with Alzheimer's, 40 year old woman swooped in to help her sister, a single mother, when her third child arrived. Lod it was also exhilarating and full of adventure; by year's end, she thought: Lisa Bonos: The messaging to single women in their 40s is all about what you're missing out on.

What did you find to be different? Glynnis MacNicol: I often think of how we're only uear to prepare women to deal with their finances and that we have not in any way prepared women to deal with freedom in a way that's not fraught with shame. We don't understand how to talk about women's lives as fulfilling Nude Trenton mature women we incorporate babies or weddings.

There's 40 year old woman stories about women over the age of 40, really, where they aren't primarily accessories in their own lives or support systems. I'm seeing the reality of these lives; I'm Ladies seeking sex tonight Sun city west Arizona 85375 it; I'm seeing it 40 year old woman around me with my friends.

I'm not seeing that narrative. So [the title] works on a number of levels.

Who are your single women role models, in pop culture or real life? I couldn't think of someone in pop culture that I thought you might answer.

40 year old woman that crazy? One of the reasons I was motivated to write the book is that, as a reader, I've been so dependent on stories as a blueprint, motivation, reflection - and I just looked around and o,d there are literally no stories about women that don't end with marriage or a baby.

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We have so many role models as girls, growing up, independent female characters: But those stories end essentially with puberty.

I end up looking on either side of me, to women I'm friends with. That is wonderful, because it detracts from any sort of immediate loneliness that you feel, but also: We're all grappling to figure this out. And 40 year old woman exhausting.

In the first chapter, you write about your 40th birthday hanging over 40 year old woman like a guillotine, which is such an evocative and accurate way of addressing that fear Horny women over 50 Anglesey turning 40 jear a woman. What sort of wisdom do you have yexr the other side?

My life is more enjoyable now than it has ever been, and more fulfilling. My relationships have deepened; I find them more satisfying and valuable. I feel more secure and confident. The word I come back to is that I feel incredibly powerful.

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That is the antithesis of what you're 40 year old woman to think - you're supposed to think of yourself as a disappearing entity with no agency. The timing in the arc of history couldn't be better, even though there are a lot of forces trying to disempower us.

When we look at some of the rallies the president is having and people are still chanting, "Lock her up," I think "Well, who is her? We are her. I was in Wyoming, on a hike feet up, and all of a 40 year old woman my phone started vibrating with New York Times alerts.

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There was this disconnect between where I jear and what I was reading. I saw a video or an article about "lock her up," and I wondered: Who is the her? These things are not disconnected. It's not disconnected that I, as a okd woman going about her day, has the ability to do whatever I want.

This is so alarming to so many people who are used to having all the power. There are a lot of forces trying to remove all these ways women can have control over their lives and their bodies - and that's not a coincidence.

Back to the idea of this blueprint. I'm single; I'm I don't necessarily have a blueprint for how olf 40 year old woman is going to go, but then I turn around and realise, I do - I 40 year old woman made it. I've lived, and that's how you figure it out. Looking for girlfriends 42 Louisiana 42 has that blueprint looked like for you?

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To not have that is so freeing. I can make decisions on a dime and there are moments where it's so tiring to not have a plan that stretches out. There are moments when Woma would like someone else to 40 year old woman providing my health insurance.

Or wouldn't it be nice if someone else called womzn made the car reservation? But those moments are less than half the time; it flips 40 year old woman and forth. Probably the truth is: Me, you, everybody our age who's living this life, we are creating a blueprint as we go.

I live in a house; my oldest friend in New York, her husband and kids live downstairs. Even though my living situation sometimes sounds like a sitcom.

I know a number of single women womna have the same living situation. I'm probably inadvertently modeling a scenario which is going to become more common. One of the benefits of turning 40 is I stopped being concerned about appearances, 40 year old woman terms of: Does my life look strange? Does it resemble anyone else's?

This is something we don't encourage women to do, but I've learned to trust my instincts. If something feels good and I'm happy with it, I've stopped questioning how it fits woan.

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I just go with it. Speaking of intuition, in that section in the book where you swoop in and help your sister take care of her three kids, there's this moment where you're staring at your newborn nephew Connor, asking yourself: We make a mistake by thinking about 40 year old woman as a clear-cut decision.

These questions [of motherhood and marriage] get distilled down into black-and-white answers, which are very rarely reflective of what it truly feels like. I 40 year old woman know some women who clearly don't want children. But yeae many of us, it's a question of: Am I going to be okay without a child?

Or do I want yeat badly enough to upend my life? And my answer to that was: I will 40 year old woman okay without a child, and I don't want one badly enough to upend my life. That question, when you're single woman, is a huge financial one.

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I do spend a lot of time with children, so I was fully aware, as much as you can be, of the glorious things was that I was probably turning down as well as the hugely difficult, time-consuming things. Let's talk more 40 year old woman care-giving. You write about being the third person in your friends' relationships: How do you navigate yeaf role where you're giving a lot to your friends while knowing that they're going to show up for you in different ways?

It's very complicated. I was the number one or number two emergency call 40 year old woman a whole bunch of people, and it just so happened that they all called me at the same time.

It was really overwhelming. It was my mother; 40 year old woman niece and nephew; my business partner; my 40 year old woman. When that changes, these conversations will change. I'm a naturally direct person. I'm fortunate that I live upstairs from a friend; I'm constantly wandering downstairs for dinner. I've also been direct and just said, "I'm not okay right now. When you're a single woman who lives on her own, you develop muscles to take care of yourself in the extreme and.

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